Bath-Time Resurrection

If you’ve happened to walk past our house on a Saturday around seven p.m., chances are good you considered calling child protection.  Judging from Gwyn’s screams, that’s our weekly time for torture.  In fact we’re just washing her hair—once a week is frequent enough, thank you.  There have been times when Gwyn’s anxiety about hair-washing was so extreme, she began worrying about the next shampoo while her hair was still wet.  We tried washing around swimming goggles.  We asked Gwyn’s birth mom to share how much she hated hair-washing as a child.  Once we called an older neighbor kid to come hold her hand, hoping peer support might help.  We talked with a therapist about toddler anxiety.

Shortly before Easter, when Gwyn was playing with a watering can in the bathtub and began pouring water over her head, I raised my eyebrows but kept my mouth wisely shut.  “Mama, I’m a flower,” she said.  “Will you water me?”  Why, of course!  I tipped the spout.  A stream of blessed water hit her hair and she began to rise, her beautiful porcelain skin emerging from the tub, her arms stretching toward a pretend sun, her fingers unfurling until my daughter was gloriously, nakedly in bloom.  I “fertilized” her hair and she wanted to grow all over again, the suds pouring over her body, her face beatific.  With her arm-petals open, Gwyn was a picture of prayer.

Easter’s a grand rebirth, life conquering death and all, but most days for most people are simpler and smaller, most sin that needs saving is minor, and sometimes I find the translation tough.  Gwyn’s bath-time resurrection released her from fear.  Torment turned into grace.  While I might point to contributing factors—her vivid imagination, her age, her increasing love of water—at the core of this transformation is a tiny Easter.  Moments like this, full of divine rebirth, surround us like the flowers of spring, and for these I praise God.

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